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My former, “Best Friend” and I are drifting apart.. AND FAST. But here’s the problem. I am going to a new school soon and she will also be going, and taking the same classes. So that’s a guaranteed friend, which I need.
But her actions lately have made me really MAD. See we both started out as the kind of girls that would do whatever to succeed. Cheating, Lying, Stealing, Whatever it took. Now I’m getting off that road, and she’s getting further in.
Mostly the problem is that she is SELFISH. If it doesn’t better her, she doesn’t care. For example: We both (get this) are honor society members. We have service projects we can lead. SHE LEADS ONE!
Her: “I could care less about my cause, I’m just doing it to get out of class.”
Me: “Oh..um..Well I’m thinking of starting one to raise money for pediatric cancer research.”
Her: You Have to put me on your team!”
Me: I think you;re busy enough anyway… (avoids truth)
Her: No just put me on the team so it will make my resume look good. I mean, I don’t really even care about the kids with cancer anyways because no one in my family has had cancer.
Me: (pissed) I GRG.
SHE KNOWS DARN WELL MY SISTER PASSES AWAY FROM CANCER NOT SO LONG AGO. HOW DARE SHE BE SO INSENSITIVE!!
Anyways, any help is appreciated. I don’t even know what to do with my suppose friend…
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Honestly, If she was your true friend she wouldn’t be so insensitive to you and what has happened with your sister. I can see from what you have said here that you are trying to better your life in a positive way and she could care less about actually doing whats right. I would just say dump her. Let her do her own thing and don’t let her be on your team. You don’t need that. She seems like the type of person that would let you do all the work but she would be the one to take credit for it. The friendship is just one sided now because you are a caring person. You’re the only one who truly cares but if i were you i would stop FAST. Live your life and let her live hers. Be done with it, It’s a lost cause. I’ve had a similar situation happen to me not to long ago. Sometimes you need to just let things be and move on. And remember everything happens for a reason. If its meant to be it will work itself out. Its all about karma hun. Good luck! Stay thinking positive about your future and forget about hers.
I say get a new friend. A true friend would never say something like that, especially if you had gone though something so traumatic.
Be friendly with her, but keep your distance. If I were you, I wouldn’t take her too seriously; you’ll find that the people who go furthest are the ones who believe in honesty.
It seems like the two of you just aren’t meant to be friends anymore. It’s too bad, but it happens. I truly believe, though, that there are too many people in this world to stick around a person like that. You’ll find a person you match up well with; just give it some time.
Hope that helps!